We don’t think you’re being managing. But i believe the you both have to take a seat and calmly find your relationship boundaries together. Otherwise, he’ll feel like you’re imposing on him, and you won’t feel just like it is possible to actually trust him to stay towards the “rules” you’ve laid down. Hash that one out together, arrive at the main of one’s vexation therefore until you both get to relationship boundaries that are comfortable for both of you and respect the friendships and relationships that predate your romance that you can articulate it to your Boyfriend or Best Friend, and be willing to compromise.